Tag Archive: Presence

Pleading Does Not Hack It

I was having dinner the other night with two ladies. We were sitting in a small Indian cafe in Little India in Singapore. We were discussing men, of course what else do you talk about? Well, men and where they go wrong…

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What puts Women off Men?

At a recent seminar the focus was on personal development and success. There was a greater percentage of women than men. So here was a perfect opportunity for men to show themselves in their strength, but did they…

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John F Kennedy

In my occasional series of Male Role Models, I would like to focus today on John F Kennedy. He had guts and faced issues full on. He is a great role model for all us men and especially for today’s politicians…

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Male Presence in Fiji

Presence is the most important masculine characteristic. Men who master this are in command of themselves and their ability to relate to others. It is the quality of knowing yourself and who you are. ..

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Who is Kidding Alpha Males?

I recently tussled with some Alpha Males in the Blogosphere. In a comment about David Letterman the writer responded to me with “And since when is having sex with a woman “treating her like meat”…

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Male Stereotypes

Due to changes there is no longer a common stereotype of the male and female role in society. It doesn’t mean that all stereotypes have been removed but that they have been multiplied…

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Male Role Models are Pathetic

In the End of Men Blog it says, “the many attempts at redefining men over the decades … all involve a move towards consumerism … Making men more feminine makes it easier to control them … and make money from them”…

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Stereotype | Frank Wheeler

My son said, “if I ever become Frank Wheeler please tie me to a chair and punch me in the nose until I can smell my bullshit”. Frank is hopeless emptiness. He is the man that so many women meet and marry…

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Martin Luther King

Men’s passion often comes out through politics, but only when its for the betterment of humanity. Learning and fully engaging in that passion is essential for men. Watch this and learn how to be totally present…

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Bono on Fire

It is essential to look at male Role Models to get clues on true masculine behaviour. I find this clip from the film Rattle and Hum amazing. Do you see the role model here for men? Do you see the presence?…

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