To Hell With Nice Guys

The famous “Ode to Nice Guys” describes the kind of pleading, soft guy I have been talking about. He has no guts and no sense of his own masculine strength.

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Does A Guy Need To Be Rugged?

Seeing this photo of me with a jeep set me thinking. I am in a rugged setting, I look at home, I feel at home. I feel in my element. Does this make me a “Guy”? Does this give me masculinity? Is this what a woman is looking for?

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Look Ahead to 2010

I think that we only get to see what it is to be a man through the eyes of a woman, I certainly found that to be true in my own life. It is the experience of living with a woman that is the true male eXperience…

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John F Kennedy

In my occasional series of Male Role Models, I would like to focus today on John F Kennedy. He had guts and faced issues full on. He is a great role model for all us men and especially for today’s politicians…

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A Conversation About Men By Women

I was recently involved in a discussion on Facebook that was prompted by a man asking why he was not succeeding with women. The responses from women show a need that is not being provided by men.

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